Natasha’s Story

Natasha has been caring for her husband since 2004, who has limited mobility and uses a wheelchair and scooter to get around. His complex health conditions, including degenerative spinal disease, Raynaud’s disease, lung condition COPD, and neurological issues, mean she provides daily support such as personal care, ensuring he takes his medication, and keeping up with the usual household tasks. It’s a demanding role, but Natasha approaches it with commitment, humour, and love.

“I try to make my husband laugh every day. Laughter is good for you, but on the whole, he is depressed. His life has changed, and he dislikes it.

Thanks to Carers in Hertfordshire, I’ve had a chance to connect, recharge, and feel seen. Through a Make a Difference break, I have received a laptop so that I can write a children’s book, when I get time – carers have dreams too!

Carers and disabled individuals deserve more support and protection. Too often, they face discrimination, judgmental stares, and unfair comments. For example, we have experienced negativity around the use of disabled badge and parking bay.

Being a carer can feel overwhelming at times, but one thing I’ve learned is never be afraid to ask for help. You might be surprised by how many people are willing to support you, whether it’s a family member, a neighbour, or friend.

There are days when it’s tough, but I remind myself that there are others facing even greater challenges. That perspective helps me stay grounded and grateful. What truly keeps me going, though, is the love I have for my husband.”